Demand your friendship

Demand in a relationship will alter it for life. Demand changes a friendship into a master slave relationship, because in order to place or make a demand of someone infers that they are subservient to you, but if you ask them to do the same things that give them the choice to say no and that you would be alright with that no. If you are not alright with that, no, then you are really making a demand of them. A demand takes away that individual’s choice, thus altering their freewill.



Demand in a marriage can effectively kill it, because no one has the right to demand anything from their spouse. There are other creative ways to get your spouse to do what you need them to do, besides demanding it of them. You have to discover those creative ways and use them.



One way is to ask them point blank to do it. Another way is to suggest them that you need them to do this or that. You could also do something for them, so that they will do something for you. There are many more ways to do it, you just have to think of them.